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Capture Your Grief - dag 1: Sunrise
For noen måneder siden kom jeg over en nettside som traff meg mitt i hjertet. Via en facebookside om barn, fødsler og mammarollen, fant jeg plutselig veien til en verden av håp, gjenkjenning og...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 2: Identity
Jeg tror sorgen over å ha mistet et barn er en livslang sorg som både går i bølger og forandrer uttrykk og karakter etter som tiden går. Jeg har vendt meg til å leve med smerten og savnet, og på et vis...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 3: Myths
Tusen takk for kommentarene under de to første bildene og ikke minst for at dere vil følge meg i denne 31 dager lange bildeutfordringen. For dere som er nye lesere: HER har jeg skrevet innledningen til...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 4: Legacy
Do you believe your child left a legacy behind? It could be something very simple, but meaningful.Jeg måtte søke litt for å finne et fullverdig norsk ord på det engelske Legacy. Skrev en mail til en...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 5: Memory
What memory do you have of your child that stands out for you the most? It may be a positive or negative memory. When you think of your child what is the first memory that comes to your mind?Jeg har...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 6: Ritual
Ritual: Do you have any rituals to help get you through the day? Maybe it is a daily affirmation or prayer. It could be that you light a candle or recite a mantra etc. Do you do anything meaningful on...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 7: You now
Where are you in your grief right now? How are you feeling? How far have you come? Are you wrestling with anything? Is your heart heavier or lighter now?Jeg visste at dagens tema ville by på litt...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 8: Colour
What colour/s do you represent your baby? Why that colour/s?Om Amélie hadde levd hadde jeg kledd henne i bomsejeans og topp med a-form. Hun hadde vært fin i grå ulljakke, tights med chevronmønster og...
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Capture Your Grief - day 9: Music
This might be hard to capture in a photograph so why not post a youtube clip of a piece of music that reminds your of your baby/ies/child/ren. Why this piece of music?Musikk kan være til stor hjelp når...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 10: Beliefs
Do you have a certain belief about what happens to us after we die? You might believe that we go to a heaven or you might believe that our bodies eventually turn to dust and that is the end of our...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 11: Emotional Triggers
What triggers emotions associated with grief for you? Is it the weather? A scent? Photos? Places? Holidays? Words? Certain People?Det er så mye jeg kunne nevnt. Noen ganger kan den rå sorgen komme...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 12: Article
Have you read an article about grief that you would love to share with everyone? Maybe it is something from Still Standing Magazine or a blog post from your favourite blogger or writer. Please feel...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 13: Book
Jeg har lest mange bøker som har hjulpet meg veldig i sorgprosessen. Både dokumentarer, fagbøker, artikkelsamlinger og bøker med mer eksistensielt innhold. Den jeg likevel har valgt å trekke frem, er...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 14: Family
What does you family look like now? Is it just yourself carrying your child’s heart in yours? Do you have other children? A partner? A pet? You may not have what society perceives as a Family, but we...
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Capture Your grief - day 15: Wave of Light
Today is October 15th Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Light a candle at 7pm to help create a continuous wave of light around the world for 24 hours. Photograph your light! Please remember to...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 16: Seasons
Share what certain seasons or holidays mean to you now. What season did your baby die in? What season were they conceived/born in? Etc. Do you dread those seasons now? Are they more meaningful to you...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 17: Time
How long has it been since your baby died?Jeg vet ikke helt når hjertet til Amélie slo siste gang. Derfor opererer jeg mest med fødselsdagen hennes, 2.juni 2011. Noen ganger tenker jeg at to år høres...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 18: Release
What do you want to let go of on this journey of grief? Is it fear? Guilt? Worry? Deep sadness? Regrets?Jeg skulle gitt alt for å få tilbake "uskylden" jeg før levde i - de lett henslengte tankene om...
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Capture Your Grief - day 19: Support
Share about what has been the best support for you since the loss of your baby. Maybe it is a special friend or family member? A pet? An organization? What have they done for you? Where would you be...
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Capture Your Grief - dag 20: Hope
Do you have hope for the future? What do you hope for those who will join this club in the future?Håp er en sinnstilstand som kan oppleves/ observeres når en får/ har troen på et positivt resultat...
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